AB on both characters, you only get access to APQ which doesn't have to be done with your spouse, only requirement is a party full of "married" people.
AB is a character you should already have anyway for the link skill. As for the issue of two same sex couples marrying in-game I'll say the same thing I say every time, stop making it a political issue, the best solution for this is to remove gender entirely from the game if it's not going to do anything except limit you from a handful of items anyway.
I did not know that the APQ required to just be married, I always thought that you had to do it with your spouse.
But APQ was not really the reason for this post. Honestly I just wanted to marry my homie. And I agree about the gender thing. I wouldn't mind removing gender out of maplestory, especially if that would unlock the possibility of marrying my homie.
Do the dev's/ community managers even look here? not out of disrespect but just curious. (less)