I don't think we have the right to blame anyone right now even if we are tempted to... We don't even know the reasons of this happening at all except that it wasn't his decision, and thatls it... As far as I'm aware of, people are basing on suppositions, and not facts, to express their opinions.
It's sad that he's not here anymore, and expressing our support to kthxbainao seems the best thing to do, especialy for him
as for me, I'll wait for kthxbainao himself to explain his situation, if he ever want to or can. Then, I'll make my own opinions, without flaming anyone, for everyvody's sake. Even if there is someone deserving a flaming, it won't solve anything or help anybody...
EDIT: now that I think about it, it IS an opinion... ^^'