iirc the suicide autoban predates reboot kanna farming meta because bots used it way before they did. Suicide abuse by other players to fit a made-up meta isn't a legitimate reason to get rid of a bot deterrent. Do it slower to avoid detection or don't do it at all.
Removing the exp loss entirely would in a way solve both those problems, but should they really have to tweak the game more for people to play it as intended?